I think i have read just about every interesting Lesbian based book and a vast majority of books by lesbians? any suggestions on anything i will read just about anything except erotica if i wanted that i would just watch a porno lol
Along the lines of what i have read so far
All of the african bisexual women and lesbian authors in Black like Us
Katherine Lee Bates and her poems to her lover
Laurinda D. Brown except Walk like a man (cant stand erotica lol)
Julie Ann Peters
Allison Bechdel greatest cartoonist ever
Cheryl Clarke
Pat Parker my idol
Nikki Giovanni
.........that is all i can think of.....any suggestions |
These are some i recently read and enjoyed:
Fingersmith and Tipping the Velvet both by Sarah Waters.
The Illusionist by FranCoise Mallet-Joris.
Time of Grace by Gabriella West
Out of Time by Paula Martinac |
What movie is it where a guy gets paid to have sex with lesbians so they can have guys? a black guy gets paid buy this group of lesbians to have sex with them since they want guys
he doesn't have to be responsible for the guys or have anything else to do with them
saw it a while ago but never finished watching it
(no its not a porno either, it was on tv so...) |
| I think you are thinking of "She Hate Me". |
White woman it is my duty as a White man to let you know the low down!? STOP BEING SLUTS! YOU GIRLS WONDER WHY WE DON'T PAY YOU ANY ATTENTION ANYMORE AND WHY WE DATE MINORITIES ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE GOTTEN TOO OLD AND BECAME COMPLETELY OVERRATED!
1.YOU STRIP
2.YOU PROSTITUTE
3.YOU DO DRUGS
4.YOU MAKE PORNO TAPES
5.YOU BECOME BI OR LESBIAN
6.YOU THINK YOUR ALL THAT
7.YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT NO ONE BUT YOURSELFS!
8. YOU GET COSMETIC SURGERY(BOOBS,LIPS,AND BUTTS) SO YOU CAN LOOK LIKE A BLACK WOMAN! I CAN GET A REAL BLACK WOMAN!
9. YOU TAN TO LOOK BLACK OR HISPANIC
10.YOU LET PEOPLE WALK ALL OVER YOU
11.YOU CAN'T FIGHT OR DEFEND YOURSELVES
THIS LIST CAN GO ON FOREVER.
THIS IS WHY WE FLOCKED TO MINORITIY WOMAN! |
| Why are you typing in caps? It makes it look like you're yelling. And lol but not all white women are like that. But then again, you said white "woman" so you are addressing only one woman? Maybe you need to consider the fact that they might not want to date a white man either and prefer minorities. Also how can you "think you're all that" and also "let people walk all over you"? Seems kinda contradictory to me. |
WHITE WOMAN LISTEN! THIS IS MY DUTY AS A WHITE MAN TOO TELL YOU? STOP BEING SLUTS! YOU GIRLS WONDER WHY WE DON'T PAY YOU ANY ATTENTION ANYMORE AND WHY WE DATE MINORITIES ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE GOTTEN TOO OLD AND BECAME COMPLETELY OVERRATED!
1.YOU STRIP
2.YOU PROSTITUTE
3.YOU DO DRUGS
4.YOU MAKE PORNO TAPES
5.YOU BECOME BI OR LESBIAN
6.YOU THINK YOUR ALL THAT
7.YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT NO ONE BUT YOURSELFS!
8. YOU GET COSMETIC SURGERY(BOOBS,LIPS,AND BUTTS) SO YOU CAN LOOK LIKE A BLACK WOMAN! I CAN GET A REAL BLACK WOMAN!
9. YOU TAN TO LOOK BLACK OR HISPANIC
10.YOU LET PEOPLE WALK ALL OVER YOU
11.YOU CAN'T FIGHT OR DEFEND YOURSELVES
THIS LIST CAN GO ON FOREVER.
THIS IS WHY WE FLOCKED TO MINORITIY WOMAN! |
| where the hell did you get the idea that white men dont want us anymore? although i agree minority women can be beautiful, so can white women... you are so ignorant. number 11? i just whooped this white guys @SS last week for trying to rape me. because yes, i am number 2. but you know what? i know plenty of black and hispanic women who work with me! in fact, i know more black prostitutes and strippers than white ones. and men of every race sweat me everytime I step out of the house.. which makes me number 6. you must be on number 3. |
White woman what happened? STOP BEING SLUTS! YOU GIRLS WONDER WHY WE DON'T PAY YOU ANY ATTENTION ANYMORE AND WHY WE DATE MINORITIES ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE GOTTEN TOO OLD AND BECAME COMPLETELY OVERRATED!
1.YOU STRIP
2.YOU PROSTITUTE
3.YOU DO DRUGS
4.YOU MAKE PORNO TAPES
5.YOU BECOME BI OR LESBIAN
6.YOU THINK YOUR ALL THAT
7.YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT NO ONE BUT YOURSELFS!
8. YOU GET COSMETIC SURGERY(BOOBS,LIPS,AND BUTTS) SO YOU CAN LOOK LIKE A BLACK WOMAN! I CAN GET A REAL BLACK WOMAN!
9. YOU TAN TO LOOK BLACK OR HISPANIC
10.YOU LET PEOPLE WALK ALL OVER YOU
11.YOU CAN'T FIGHT OR DEFEND YOURSELVES
THIS LIST CAN GO ON FOREVER.
THIS IS WHY WE FLOCKED TO MINORITIY WOMAN! |
| Maybe 3% in total do that.. |
Im afraid im turning gay? Ok let me start off by saying this, for 16 years of my life i was pretty much 100 percent sure that i was straight, i had probably thirty different crushes on girls over the years and one massive one that iv had for about 2 years. All my fantasies and dreams were always about girls (however i never reached orgasm in a wet dream i just got insanely horny and some stimulation but it never went on for long enough to get me to orgasm) and never once did i get a crush on a guy or have any early guyhood same sex experiences(the opposite actually, a guyhood hetero experience). I had always taken kind of long to get off but i had just thought it was normal and a side effect of jerking off every day usually more than once, which had been going on since i was like 13. After i turned 16 in january we went on a ski trip and one of the days i remember i was in the shower trying to jerk off when i realized the fantasy i was having had a really big dick that was ******* this hot girl in my school, it freaked me out a little that i was aroused by a dick but i just blew it off and it soon got lost in my countless heterosexual fantasies. then about three months ago i was watching porn and was getting really turned on by this massive black penis that unleashed a massive load on this girl but again i blew it off as pretty normal. Then about a month ago i was in a macdonalds with a few of my friends and they were having this conversation about a girl that went from straight to lesbian and all of a sudden i was overcome with terrible circling thoughts that wouldn't leave my mind and ever since then iv stopped finding girls as attractive and have gone through such bad anxiety and depression my parents had to send me to a hospital. Their they identifyed what i had as OCD and they put me on zoloft. Ever since then the intensity has gone down but i still have these terrible and unacceptable thoughts and fantasies. Every time i get close to a cute girl i have an urge to hug and spoon her, especially the one iv had a crush on for 2 years. Despite this my sexual interest in female porn (especially lesbian which used to be my favorite) has declined and i need to watch weird or taboo things it seems like in order to get off fast like pregnant women, gay porn, or weird fetish things which all really freak me out. Especially the gay porn and i absolutely loath myself for getting pleasure out of it( the only part of the male body that i like tho is the penis, i do not find males faces or muscular bodies even remotely attractive and i only watched gay porn once and it was just a guy jerking off and then blowing a load and i cant tell if i liked it or just got off due to the stimulation). In movies and real life however i still find female attractive an males not so much, for some bizarre reason the clothed female body is more arousing to me than the naked female body. Is it normal to get pleasure out of watching guys *** on women and do straight guys find ***** at all arousing? it seems if theirs not a woman in the porno its usually harder for me to get off but its also harder for me to get off if the girl's not getting penetrated by something, usually a dildo or a dick. In the past i have also had instances of when i convince myself i have a terrible terminal illness, One time i had tingling in my elbows and hands for a week and a half so i flipped out and absolutely convinced myself I had MS. Once i found out that MS symptoms can be almost anything i suddenly started getting blurry vision and weird aches, tinglings and loss of sensation on various places around my body. Can someone please give me a hint to whats going on with me and if im turning gay, bi curious or just straight with weird fetishes?
Also how long should it take to get off, sometimes if iv already done it that day and my penis starts to get sore it can take like 35 minuets. The first time usually takes anywhere from 5-15 minuets, is that normal? |
First off, no your not turning gay. You can't "turn," gay so if you actually are gay then you were gay all along but frankly it does not sound like you're gay what it sounds like is that you have some very serious emotional problems that are causing extreme sexual identity problems and a lot of stress. The best advice (which ironically seems to be the advise I give most often) is to say that the more you worry about it the worse your going to feel and the more confused your going to be. These things take time and your not going to have some epiphany and suddenly realize who you are and what your life is supposed to be it's something you look back on years later and realize you knew all along.
It is entirely possibly that you could be gay, bi, into trannies, into manly women, into about anything you can name and a sexuality that the ever expanding litany of sexual identity titles hasn't even invented yet but what does it matter. Look even if you do like guys you can still have a perfectly normal, succesful, and happy life and no one says you have to jump out of the closet the second you realize your not quite what people think might be normal.
Just be, just live, and let the rest figure itself out cause obviously stressing about hasn't done you any good yet. |
White woman it is my duty as a White man to let you know the low down!? STOP BEING SLUTS! YOU GIRLS WONDER WHY WE DON'T PAY YOU ANY ATTENTION ANYMORE AND WHY WE DATE MINORITIES ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE GOTTEN TOO OLD AND BECAME COMPLETELY OVERRATED!
1.YOU STRIP
2.YOU PROSTITUTE
3.YOU DO DRUGS
4.YOU MAKE PORNO TAPES
5.YOU BECOME BI OR LESBIAN
6.YOU THINK YOUR ALL THAT
7.YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT NO ONE BUT YOURSELFS!
8. YOU GET COSMETIC SURGERY(BOOBS,LIPS,AND BUTTS) SO YOU CAN LOOK LIKE A BLACK WOMAN! I CAN GET A REAL BLACK WOMAN!
9. YOU TAN TO LOOK BLACK OR HISPANIC
THIS LIST CAN GO ON FOREVER.
THIS IS WHY WE FLOCKED TO MINORITIY WOMAN! |
| right . . . i hope yo mama is not white |